IMO people here don't suffer fools, and there isn't anything wrong with that. I don't think Jedi or Sith would.
I personally am one of those instant gratification people, but I've admitted my problem which is the first step to solving it. and honestly doing all this research after work/school is a labor of love. I'm glad to have kept my questions to myself and have already seen the results, like today I found an issue with my first design and fixed it. Anyways I'm hopping that this hobby/way of life will teach me patience, and I know it will teach me some useful skills.
Then there's the expensive tools. I think it's great now that I have them and can tackle things around the house if I need to, and when I finish my first MHS lightsaber I'll have a powerful flashlight too.
People here have been nice and friendly to me.
Thanks for all the information on here, I hope to use it and make you guys proud